The LASTING LOVE Podcast
The Lasting Love Podcast ... Real Life, Real People, Real Love! ... Lasting Love isn't a given. It's a CHOICE and a SKILL that you can master! No matter what your dating or relationship situation, "It's NOT YOU--It's your technique!". Anyone can get a different result if they know what to do. Tune in each week as Alisa Goodwin Snell, M.A. (with over 30-years of experience as a Marriage & Family Therapist and a Dating & Relationship Strategist) transforms the love life of singles and couples like you.
Episodes
19 episodes
Dating a widower, long distance, or the never married?
When Karen, a 38-year-old divorced mother of three, came back from her singles' vacation, she was excited about a widow, a divorced man with three kids, and a handsome, never-married man who lived locally. But who should she choose? The divorce...
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Season 1
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Episode 18
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28:48
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I'm not feeling it! Should I stay or should I go?
"I don't know if I'm feeling it. I'm not sure if I'm attracted. I still notice attractive people. I worry that we're not having enough fun. I've felt stronger feelings in the past. I don't know if this will go anywhere, and I don't want to wast...
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Season 1
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Episode 17
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36:22
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Make the most of social, church, vacation, and group events.
Is it worth the time, inconvenience, and money to go to singles' cruises, vacations, or conferences when you rarely end up dating anyone you meet there? Also, what about your church, social events, and other hangout opportunities? Is it realist...
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Season 1
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Episode 16
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36:58
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Dating apps don't work! Going Dutch? Get 3 dates/wk
Singles frequently complain that dating apps don't work, there aren't attractive singles, all the good ones are married, and dating isn't fun. Additionally, they want to know what to do when someone wants to go Dutch. These were the questions a...
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Season 1
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Episode 15
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30:59
Finding the faith to love and be loved
(podcast includes a downloadable workbook) We've all had painful experiences that feed our fears or make us doubt ourselves and our future. We fear that we'll fail, we can't have what others have, and we'll experience the same prob...
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Season 1
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Episode 14
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30:11
Reveal My Partner's Hidden Needs PART 1: You can be right or effective
Tim and Tara's struggle with creating and maintaining a secure attachment pattern was so tragic and sad because it was unfortunately too common. Neither of them was involved in toxic behavior (addictions, infidelity, dishonesty, or abuse), and ...
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Season 1
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Episode 9
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16:44
Reveal My Partner's Hidden Needs PART 2: Grieving leads to acceptance & success
Tim and Tara's struggle with creating and maintaining a secure attachment pattern was so tragic and sad because it was unfortunately too common. Neither of them was involved in toxic behavior (addictions, infidelity, dishonesty, or abuse), and ...
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Season 1
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Episode 10
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7:12
Reveal My Partner's Hidden Needs PART 3: From feeling fearful to being resilient
Tim and Tara's struggle with creating and maintaining a secure attachment pattern was so tragic and sad because it was unfortunately too common. Neither of them was involved in toxic behavior (addictions, infidelity, dishonesty, or abuse), and ...
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Season 1
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Episode 11
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14:22
Reveal My Partner's Hidden Needs PART 4: Their hidden needs
Tim and Tara's struggle with creating and maintaining a secure attachment pattern was so tragic and sad because it was unfortunately too common. Neither of them was involved in toxic behavior (addictions, infidelity, dishonesty, or abuse), and ...
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Season 1
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Episode 12
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24:34
Reveal My Partner's Hidden Needs PART 5: From punishment and reward to attachment
Tim and Tara's struggle with creating and maintaining a secure attachment pattern was so tragic and sad because it was unfortunately too common. Neither of them was involved in toxic behavior (addictions, infidelity, dishonesty, or abuse), and ...
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Season 1
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Episode 13
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12:52
Want to be socially accepted? Don't miss this!
We've all been that person who's been in a social group or setting and noticed someone on the outskirts, the wallflower, the one who tries to start a conversation very awkwardly, or they only come with one person and they stay with that person ...
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Season 1
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Episode 9
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36:54
Is it time to break up, or is there hope?
Have you been in a conflict with someone you really care about? You want to be patient and understanding of where they're coming from. You also need to be heard and tell them what you're thinking. You’re upset. You're trying to control your emo...
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Season 1
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Episode 8
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29:39
Her ex is a narcissist, but what about her?
Have you ever noticed that as a single person, it seems so many people are experts at identifying their exes as Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder?It's common to hear these terms thrown around. It either makes you sympatheti...
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Season 1
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Episode 7
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27:57
Is she being LOVE-BOMBED?
Over 20 years ago, I was set up on a blind date, and when he called, I felt such an immediate connection. He was funny, charming, confident. It just was intoxicating. We stayed on the phone for hours. My cheeks hurt. After that conversation, he...
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Season 1
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Episode 6
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31:47
Is he not getting dates because he's on the spectrum?
When Jeremy walked into my office as a 22-year-old college student who had never been in a significant relationship and rarely went on dates, there were a couple of things that stood out about him. He was a little overweight. His posture really...
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Season 1
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Episode 5
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25:53
Can this relationship be saved?
Tim and Tara were in their 40s. They both had two children from previous marriages. And they were having a tremendous amount of conflict in their relationship. When I first started working with Tim, he was very anxious, losing weight, couldn't ...
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Season 1
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Episode 4
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18:07
You're amazing! Why aren't you married?
If you're like a lot of singles, one of the hardest questions to answer or statements to respond to is, "You're amazing! I can't understand why you're still single," or "How are you not married yet?" There are so many different th...
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Season 1
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Episode 3
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21:31
No GF or BF. What's wrong with me?
When my son was a teenager, he came to me and shared his fear that there must be something wrong with him because he was not in a relationship, like he felt so many of his friends were. As I talked with him about it, it was obvious that he had ...
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Season 1
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Episode 2
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19:58
Does lasting love really exist?
If you ask someone if they want to get married, you'll receive a variety of different answers. But if you ask them if they want lasting love, across the board, you're going to hear, "Yes. They do want to love and be loved". You're also going ...
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Season 1
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Episode 1
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